What the Girl Really Hears When You Use Corny Pick Up Lines
July 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment
The reason corny pick up lines don’t work is because they say a lot about the person delivering them. Corny pick up lines will only spoil your chances.
Guess what? Did you know that there is a pick up line so alluring, and seductive that when used makes her melt into your arms!
Really!
No, Sorry just jerking your chain; but the quest for such a line has created an entire industry and men search for this magic phrase; like historians search for the Holy Grail.
The reason for this powerful demand is men really believe they can compensate their shyness when approaching women if they are armed with what they believe to be a witty pick up line. Sadly the pick up line is far from being witty; it’s downright corny and corny pick up lines tell the woman you are inexperienced and shy. As you know “actions speak louder than words” and a corny pick up line says you have low self confidence and nothing turns away a woman faster than a man with no confidence.
Confidence is the key, if you have the right attitude, and your body language says you are confident; you can use a corny pick up line, or any other pick up and be successful.
So, now you know what corny pick up lines really say about you, and why some can get away with it while others can’t let’s look at 10 really corny pick up lines:
1.) Come here often Talk about lack of originality, this line basically says “I’m Bob and I’m lucky to put 2 sentences together.”
2.) Can I check your clothes tag? Why? Because you must have been made in heaven!
Can you say loser!
3.) If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together
4.) Are your legs tired? Because You have been running through my mind all night.
5.) You know what would look really good on you? Me!
You would be lucky if you didn’t get smacked.
6.) Can I borrow a quarter? I promised my mom I would call her when I met the girl of my dreams.
7.) Is you dad in jail? Cuz he stole the stars and put them in your eyes.
8.)Is there a Ninja in your pants? Cuz your ass is kickin.
9.) I’ve heard sex is a killer. Want to die happy?
10.) The body is made up of 90% water and I’m thirsty.
Some of these corny pick up lines are funny and some are offensive but the facts remain; when you are picking up a girl the way you carry yourself says more to her than what actually comes out of your mouth.
To discover how you should carry yourself when speaking to girls, and what your body language is really saying get my free report from here on- Attracting Girls.
By: Mark Taylor
About the Author:
Mark Taylor is an expert on seduction, attraction and dating. He has helped thousands of men attract beautiful women and get over their shyness and transform into confident men. If you would like to be able to seduce ANY women then check out his website at www.masteronlinedater.com
Controlling Fear when Picking up Girls
July 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment
For example, when we are afraid of something that cannot actually harm us – such as snakes – or something we can do nothing to avoid – such as old age or being struck down with smallpox or being run over by a truck – then our fear is unhealthy, for it serves only to make us unhappy and paralyze our will.
On the other hand, when someone gives up smoking because they are afraid of developing lung cancer, this is a healthy fear because the danger is real and there are constructive steps they can take to avoid it.
But gentlemen being afraid a woman will reject you is insane. There are millions more where she came from and who cares if she rejects you.
It takes will power on your part. Sometimes when the king is feeling fear. I just make myself do it. I don’t want to come off as a wuss and embarrass myself to death because I don’t have the balls to make the hit. It will make you a stronger person even if she says NO.
You really have to give yourself a pep talk but under all circumstances do not back down. Make the hit. No matter what you say. Just let her know you are interested and sit yourself aside from the rest of the weak sisters out there. She will secretly respect you for it. So will any bystanders. Here is a true story for you that will blow you away. I was on a public bus and I put the king of seduction’s moves on a 10….Kick this around in your mind. I got a standing ovation as I was getting off the bus and I will never forget the clapping hands that great day. Needless to say I walked away with her phone number!
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Picking Up Women
July 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Imagine the scene. You are standing in a queue and you see the most gorgeous girl you have ever seen before. You are rooted to the spot totally unaware of anything but this girl. You have an almost uncontrollable urge to run over to her and start talking. The “fight or flight syndrom” kicks in as your body pumps out adrenaline. You want to find out her name and you desperately want her number.
Suddenly your mouth gets dry, your hands start to feel moist and your brain gives you a hundred reasons to just look away. So what do you do? Give up and run to fight another day (and beat yourself up for it for the next week) or breathe deep, bite the bullet and approach her even though you don’t know the best way of doing this – especially beautiful ones?
This is a scenario that almost every man faces at least once (if not every week) in their lives. It can be hard for men to approach girls and even harder when it comes to picking up women how are beautiful. The art of picking up women has become much harder since females became more independent and selective in their choice of partners. The 21st century male really has his work cut out for him!
So here are a few tips for picking up women that you may not have used before.
- Where have you been looking for the perfect girl? Do you know that very few girls meet their partner in a bar? Think of the type of woman you want to spend time with. What does she like doing? What are her interests? Picking up women is easier when you meet them in places that interest them, while you are doing things they find interesting. Being passionate about what you love is one of the easiest methods to seduce beautiful girls. So seek out girls in places where they will appreciate the things you enjoy doing!
- Don’t rush in! Review the situation first. Has she noticed you? Did she look over? Many men refuse to believe a beautiful woman may be interested in them. The very same rules apply to gorgeous girls as those that apply to average ones when it comes to picking up women.
- Attempt to catch her eye. When she looks at you smile back. Do not look away nervously! Stay relaxed but try not to stare at her. Just smile naturally not with a wide Cheshire cat grin. Being natural and confident is the key to getting girls attention.
- Don’t overdo it! Look away and give her a second to access the situation and you. After a few minutes you can make your move.
- If she looks at you there is a chance. If she smiles you’re onto a winner. If she looks away shyly or immediately talks to her friend and her friend looks over this is a good sign. She will never approach you though! If you’re in a bar send over a drink first. Wait for several minutes before you walk over to her, to give her time to question why you did it and have a think about how she feels about it! If you are in a special interest setting start talking to her about it.
- However, when picking up women there is on occasions reason to act quickly. You should act quickly if she looks bored. This is the only time you should ignore the tip above. If she looks bored or annoyed with her company just act! Opportunities are available everyday but they only turn into successes if you act!
- Girls love confident, bold men. Only 20% of a woman’s attraction to a man is based on physical appearance. This is an important point when it comes to picking up women.
- If you think confidently you will naturally act confidently. When picking up women it is important to project confidence. Therefore while you are preparing to approach just quickly imagine a positive outcome in your mind. Quickly imagine that you are walking towards her. then you start talking and laughing with her. Then see yourself getting her number. This will put you immediately into a more confident frame of mind which will be reflected in your body language.
- The above technique should also be used when you are not in the company of anyone else – as a sort of practice run. It is an invaluable technique when it comes to picking up women. Visualizing yourself as a great pick-up artist will have amazing results. Use your imagination to create a mental scene where you are ozing confidence and charisma. See yourself being successful with gorgeous girls. Create the positive feelings that you will experience when this scene is real. Visualize this every night just before you drift off to sleep. Although you may not realize the power of this exercise trust me when I tell you that it will increase your chances of picking up women by 1000%! Women know if you are confident or faking it so this little technique will dramatically improve your confidence and belief in yourself.
Follow the above advice and you will do well in the dating game and will get to meet many beautiful and interesting girls.
By: Michael McGrath
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How To Pick Up Girls In A Night Club
July 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment
I’ll be straight up with you. I do not like night clubs for meeting women.
If you are puzzled by this, read on. I don’t like night clubs because the odds are heavily against you. It’s better to take a date to a night club than trying to meet a girl there.
Now, with that disclaimer, I realize a lot of men like to go out to night clubs because they are fun, and there are a LOT of women there to choose from.
So if you know how to overcome the obstacles that night clubs present, they can actually be great places to pick up women in.
To pick up girls in the club, you need to follow a few simple steps:
1. Understand that night clubs are all about STIMULUS.
Attracting attention to yourself in a night club is a great way to get noticed by girls. Try and dress above average. Wear clothes that are different and fashionable. Women love guys who dress nice, and if your clothes can attract attention to you, it’ll make your job of meeting women easier.
2. Attitude is EVERYTHING.
Anything you can do to draw attention to yourself in a non-verbal way will be to your advantage in a club. Remember, you’re dealing with a place that’s loud and poorly lit, so having a confident attitude with the right body language is ESSENTIAL, because that’s primarilly how you can communicate in a situation like that.
Walk with a swagger. Make strong eye contact. Be flirty – smile, wink, and nod. Having an outgoing attitude will help you to attract attention.
3. Don’t say it, take action.
Don’t try and hold a conversation in a noisy club environment. Instead, use actions to control the situation. When you walk up to a girl, keep the introduction short. Then, take her by the hand and lead her someplace quieter, like a smoking patio outside the club, and talk to her there. Or, take her by the hand and drag her to the dance floor.
If she can’t hear you, it doesn’t matter either way. Display confidence instead, it’ll get you much further.
4. Don’t spend too much time with any one girl.
Latching onto one girl in the club is a bad idea! You might find a girl you like and want to hang around with her, but you’ll actually get more mileage by flitting around the club and meeting as much women as possible.
Remember – clubs are about stimulus! Trying to do any one thing for too long will work against you. If you hang out with a girl too much in the club, she’s going to get tired of you because you’re now competing with all the other stimulus.
Make the rounds – dance and talk to lots of girls, and come back to the girl you like. Don’t worry, she’s not going anywhere. Just remember these magic words when you do this: “I’ll be right back!”
5. Know How To Dance!
I’ve stated that non-verbal communication is essential in a good nightclub pickup. And you can’t get more nonverbal than dancing!
Being a good dancer is a great way to attract attention. Girls love to dance, and if you can master the dance floor, you WILL impress them! Understand, many women equate how good a man dances with how good he is in the bedroom. (Strange, but true.)
Take some lessons so you can really learn how to move out there. In a club, that’s where it’s all going on anyhow. If you can get a girl to dance, chances are you can get her to kiss you too.
Nonverbal skills are the key to night clubs. Learn them, and they’ll be a treasure for you.
By: Joseph Matthews
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The Strategy to Picking Up Bartenders in Bars – Part 1
July 21, 2009 | Leave a Comment
The Strategy To Picking Up Bartenders in Bars – Part 1
Leaning over the marble bar and at the top of my voice I order a vodka tonic, the young blonde girl behind the bar looks at me inquisitively and asks about my vintage ¾ length velvet jacket I’m wearing and remarks she likes it.
I smile …
Without pausing she quickly and effortlessly places a crisp tonic water and a shot of vodka on a obviously designer made serviette with the emblem “IVY”, for I was at the Ivy night spot, know to celebrities and stars around the world as the club where you pick up glamour girls. Tonight was my night to shine.
It had been three solid weeks where I didn’t go out at nighttime. I was working around the clock the last few weeks on my new DVD the prequel to Street Dating Revealed with my only friend my final cut pro editing suite and a good ‘ole cup of instant coffee, that rancid burning taste that pierces and numbs your taste buds after the third cup and I was well past that.
Standing there at the Ivy nightspot surrounded by some of Australia’s most beautiful women I found myself drawn to the idea of walking away with the bar girls phone number or even better …her
The question was how would I make this possible…
There is a SECRET that most men don’t know about talking to these types of girls ESPECAILLY when they’re working which I’ll reveal in just a moment.
The challenge with these girls who are “working” these jobs is the fact that they are the easiest to talk to, that said they’re also the most challenging to get a phone number from.
The secret strategy is what I call “order a drink and make her think” and has worked for me many times and even my closest friends exclaim how powerful this simple technique is as they’ve had much success from using it to meet hot bartenders.
It’s not really a technique so to speak of but this “order a drink and make her think” helps me remember what I need to do.
It’s very simple and this is how it goes:
** Order a drink from the hottest bartender you see, even if you have to wait for her to serve you it’ll be worth it, it doesn’t really matter what you order just make sure you order it from the hottest girl working the bar.
** When she asks what you would like say with a smile and friendly demeanor
“What do you recommend?”
or
“There’s so much choice here what would you recommend to me or what’s your favorite?”
** The key here is to make her think – you’ve broken the pattern of customer -> bartender and asked what she recommends rather than simply requesting a specific drink like all the other guys there, this is the first step to standing out.
** Depending on how busy it is you can easily chat to these girls. The fact is 99% of these girls are bored for they’re working, serving drinks and everybody’s else is having fun so they yearn for some cool guys to playfully make jokes about them and flirt with her.
If it’s not busy at the bar simply make statements about her and assumptions such as:
** “I love the way move … you have such a grace about you” (say it in a cheesy tone)
** “I’m guessing you’re a Taurus … you have such an strange undertone to the way you poured that beer …
The key here is to make her think i.e. “order a drink and make her think” and say something which is completely logically opposite or philosophical.
END OF PART 1
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