Understanding Dirty Pick Up Lines
July 10, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Despite the chance of getting slapped, there is a chance of getting a positive response when using dirty pick up lines. The key factor here is the way you deliver the line and in what context. If you just go up to some random girl at a bar and deliver a dirty pick up line with a serious face, then expect abuse from her, most likely she won’t like what you have to say. However, take the same girl and deliver your line in a fun and playful manner with a smile in your face and you can expect a completely different response. The girl may not appreciate what you said, but chances are she won’t want to slap or insult you; at least you are in the clear. At the very least, it will give you an opportunity to talk to her about something, to get a conversation going. Equally, there is a chance she might actually laugh, enjoy what you have to say and find it amusing. How can one be upset with someone who says something with a smile in their face in a joking manner?
The bottom line is, the use of dirty pick up lines should be used with caution and be used smartly. As long as you deliver it in a fun spirit and are not expecting much, then go for it and most importantly have fun with it! The moment you approach it in a serious manner, then that is when you are in serious trouble.
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The Six Elements of Picking Up Girls
July 9, 2009 | Leave a Comment
The Six Elements of Picking Up Girls
This G Manifesto is extremely important. This data, up until now has been highly guarded information, and revealing it could probably get me in trouble. It’s not unlike when Chinese Martial Artists started to reveal the secrets of hand to hand combat and self-defense to westerners. A lot of them got paid visits from the heavies over there. So don’t take this data sheet lightly. And don’t worry about me…desert eag (and Rugers for minor maneuvers), plus I got The Garduna behind me…..So here are The Six Elements of Picking Up Girls:
Sizzle.
This is very important for the opening. You have approach girls with snap, swagger and energy. You need to have a purpose and pitch something that is exciting, fresh and unique. For instance, pitching 3 ringside seats to a Title Fight to a couple of exotic dancers in a Gentleman’s Club is going to have some Sizzle on it (make sure you sit Girl-Boy-Girl). But know your audience; pitching a girl on an afternoon in The Turf Club at the Racetrack might seem like a good pitch on a Hollywood actress girl, unless she volunteers for PETA during her off-time. The gear you wear helps a lot. A custom, light grey Paul Smith suit (with ticket pocket) with purple pinstripes, Lilac pocket square by Brioni and a light Resort Style Armani shirt with Crocodile loafers by A. Testoni will give you that added zip that you need. Focus helps give you Sizzle. When I am picking up on a girl it might seem extremely effortless to the untrained eye. In reality, I am incredibly focused. Sometimes I am so focused I am basically clairvoyant…..with extra sensory perception…..hell, some days I can move objects, like telekinesis when I am picking up girls. Important note: girls always talk about how the like “bad boys” (their language not mine). But you can cross the line; I remember hanging out with a girl in a café during the day and two hitters came after me. It escalated into a full-blown daylight street shootout. The girl, completely unharmed, (who always said she liked “bad boys”) disconnected her phone when I tried to call her a few days later. So the lesson is, don’t push the “bad boy” thing too far. (again, girls lingo not mine)
Control.
Like any good MC that has Mic Control you need to control what is happening. For instance, don’t follow a girl you are trying to swoop to some bar that has a crappy band playing that her ex-boyfriend is in. You have to call the shots. Otherwise you could very easily end up Behind Enemy Lines. You make all decisions on where you are going and who you are rolling with. You need to know what moves to make during all hours of the day and night. Know what restaurant is best. Where the underground spots are. You need to dictate the action. Remember, part of what a night is scored on is “effective aggressiveness” and “ring generalship”. Don’t be afraid to walk away from the whole deal either. The key to this is having plenty of girls in your Pipe. You don’t even have to ask to know that my Pipe stays full like Mark Twain and General Macarthur’s.
Rapport.
This one is tough. Let’s face it, G’s and most girls have very little in common. Most normal girls don’t like Boxing, hanging out with underworld figures, eating extremely fattening foods, listening to the sound of money being counted in a money counter, negotiating gem prices, drinking wine like we are about to start prohibition again, Swooping as many girls as possible, planning heists, living a life of leisure, and being an all around jet-setting international playboy. When a girl asks you “What do you like to do for fun?” You can’t really respond with “Picking up on Girls” as an answer. (Side note: Thru an unofficial study, I have found out that many Female G’s, yes they do exist, are Bi-sexual, and because of this, saying “Picking up on girls” can be an acceptable answer). You need to find some kind of common ground, hard as it may be at times. For instance, most white girls have some Irish blood in them, so if you’re Irish at all, Bingo, there you go. Know a little about Zodiac Signs as well. News just in, girls like talking about signs, especially exotic dancers. There is a reason fly cats in the 70’s worked the sign game. In the new millennium, however, you can’t really ask girls flat out “what’s your sign?” There guard is up on that stuff. It’s better to lead girls “down the canyon” on this. Simply put, tell a girl you just had your birthday, ask a girl when her birthday is, and within two minutes, she will be asking you what your sign is. Every time. Worst case scenario, ask a girl what her favorite animal is and say it’s yours also. Just find some something in common…….Skippy.
Trust.
Trust usually falls in line from Rapport. But still you have to work on it. Usually this is the part when you really have to put on your lying cap. For instance, if you were in a baseball bat fight with the Baseball Furies the night before, you probably want to leave it out of the conversation. Or if a girl asks you “how many girls you have slept with?” It goes without saying, that you don’t tell the truth. I remember a time when I was a young Prototype G and a girl I was swooping asked me, “how many girls you have slept with?”. I remember I responded “I don’t know, like fifty” thinking I would say a “low” number (in reality at that time it was probably about 3 to 4 times that). I remember her reaction and the funny look she had on face when I said, “fifty”. Incredibly and naively, I remember thinking that she gave me a weird look because it was such a low number (And in reality it is, if you go out a lot, you can swoop 50 fly girls in 2 months…) The next time I called her, her number was disconnected. It wasn’t until I ran into her a few months later, (at one of my Bases of Operations at the time), that I realized that she thought that number was extremely high. It wasn’t the first or the last time a girl has called me a “pig” (her lingo not mine). Skillfully, I talked my way out of it, on the fly, and ended up closing the account. A come-from-behind knockout a la Rocky Graziano. Side note: The best answer the dreaded question “how many girls you have slept with?” is, in the sincerest way possible “I have been with a few very important girls in my life…..” And leave it at that. Trust me.
Urgency.
You have to make things happen fast when you are picking up girls. Every moment that goes by after you have gotten a girls phone number or made a date with her is hurts your chances. It’s a similar concept to “time erosion” with options trading on the New York Mercantile Exchange. Or the Chicago Board of Trade, or CME for that matter. It’s like a depreciating asset. The chances of a girl “coming to” from the hypnotism of your game starts to wear off. Always make plans with girls that night or the next. Collapse time frames.
Greed.
One of the Seven Deadly Sins. Many theorists say it’s the most important of the deadly sins. “Greed is right. Greed works. Greed clarifies, cuts through, and captures the essence of the evolutionary spirit. Greed, in all of its forms — greed for life, for money, for love, knowledge — has marked the upward surge of mankind.”Gecko. And greed — you mark my words — will not only save the G’s, but that other malfunctioning corporation called the USA………The Rest is Up to You.
Side Note:
In addition to Resort Style. On the west coast, summer style is very casual (I am primarily referring to the southern part). Don’t fall for it. People might think you are excessive and wrong for wearing a $2700 custom Italian suit in summer. Keep in mind this is made by skilled Italian craftsmen (I would call the guys who work on my suits Artists) who put about 50 hours of labor into it. Yet these same people think that think you are being excessive and wrong for wearing it, are wearing a Logoed Surf T-Shirt that costs five cents to make my some kid with missing fingers in some child labor sweat shop in some far-flung Tin Pot Republic. And they pay like $80 for the stupid T-Shirt! And I am the one being excessive and wrong…….Go Figure…..
Michael Porfirio Mason
AKA The Peoples Champ
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How To Flirt With Women and Attract More Girls Using These Rules
July 9, 2009 | Leave a Comment
How to flirting with women
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Flirting with women is something that guys often feel uncomfortable doing. I’ve had many guys write to me to tell me that they were afraid they’d get arrested if they were seen flirting with women in a store or other establishment during the day.
(I think this fear is very common, and it holds a lot of guys back from approaching women during the day…)
I want to give you some of my favorite strategies for flirting with women that you can put to work right away.
First of all, I want you to know that the term “flirting” is really just chick-speak for “pickup.” Guys talk about “picking up” on girls, and women talk about “flirting” with guys.
It’s a subtle difference in language and terminology that you need to understand so that you don’t risk turning off a woman. Women love to flirt, but hate the thought of being picked up on – which connotes fun and playfulness.
Pickup, on the other hand, is serious and sex-oriented, which turns women off.
The next thing you need to be aware of is that we are all born natural flirts. Just watch kids when they’re playing. Watch their body language and their facial expressions. Watch how they roll their eyes, and how they use the tone of their voice to get their way with adults, as well as other kids.
They are EXPERTS!
You were once, too, and all you need to do is tap back into it.
Now, the rules of flirting with women:
RULE #1) Flirting is always acceptable in a humorous tone.
If you get serious, a woman is going to turn off and tune you out.
Simple. ‘Nuff said.
RULE #2) Flirt to GIVE, not to get.
Outcome thinking sabotages your results. When you create a situation where you have to get a result from something you do, you no longer feel fun.
All conversations where someone wants something from the other person inevitably become uncomfortable.
RULE #3) Flirt for your own FUN.
If it’s not fun, you won’t keep doing it. Self-reinforcing habit. You must have a positive motivational reason to flirt, or you’ll feel like it’s just another chore and you’ll stop doing it.
I was at the best buy the other day buying a movie, and the cute cashier asked me: “Can I see your credit card real fast?”
So I literally pulled it out of my wallet and slid it back in about a split second.
She laughed and her body language changed instantly. Now our interaction was no longer just business. And I did that because I’m Italian, and we just LOVE to bust people’s balls like that.
Flirting with women and teasing are practically the exact same thing.
RULE #4) Flirt with EVERY woman, child, and small furry mammal you encounter.
Flirting is an attitude that comes through in your vibe. If you only approach attractive women, you’ll just create a mental barrier for yourself, and more anxiety when you find a woman you “really” want to meet.
Flirting is about creating an abundance mindset. The more abundant you feel, the less you appear needy to a woman.
Now, HOW do you get started?
Here’s my 4 step formula for flirting with women:
Step 1) Indirect Question – Ask her something about wherever you are, and keep it situationally relevant.
In other words, if you’re in a coffee shop, you need to ask a question that relates to fact that you’re both in this coffee shop.
Step 2) Use a sassy comment – Sometimes called “Cocky & Funny”, or teasing.
Here’s what I like to use. I call it the “Duh” question:
“Do you think they serve the drinks really HOT here?”
Then she usually answers me with, “Uhm, yeah…” And after she looks at me like I’m from another planet, I smile, wink at her, and say, “You didn’t really think I was serious, did you?”
And the teasing has begun…
Then you have a playful conversation.
And finally, the last step in flirting with women is this:
Step 3) YOU leave the conversation first.
When you’re the one to control the ending of the conversation, your confidence will go up ten times more than if she tells you, “I’ve got to get going.”
So don’t let her get the drop on you.
Create what I call the Sacrificial 20: Leave with nothing for the first 20 women you flirt with.
No phone number, no nothing.
After you leave behind your old scarcity mindset, and when you feel like women are abundant, you can start to go further…
Remember, every girlfriend you’ve had started with a little bit of flirting…
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Carlos Xuma is a well-known expert in the dating-seduction related field and an author of bestselling titles such as “Secrets of the Alpha Male”, “Approach Women – NOW!” and “Alpha Immersion”.
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By: Alex Coulson
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Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.
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Using Your Voice And Body Language To Pick Up Chicks
July 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Most men think that picking up a girl is a matter of using clever lines and routines, but much more important than the words you actually use are the way you present your body to the girl. Words can lie, but the body doesn’t, and the two crucial aspects of a body’s presentation are its stance and the quality of the voice, which can be viewed as an interpretation of the body’s inner state. Good voice and good body language convey great confidence.
1. Have a deep, powerful voice that comes from the diaphragm.
First of all, learn to breathe from the abdomen: this is the necessary basis for a powerful voice which will enable you to convey the emotional range of expression that captivates beautiful women.
2. Speak slowly and clearly.
Without overdoing it, enunciate every word and make them all count! Eliminate redundant words such as “uh”, “like”, and “you know”.
3. Speak rhythmically.
Use pauses to create a hypnotic lilt to your delivery.
4. Speak loudly.
This is crucial, especially in loud venues, and in the early stages of an interaction. When you’re sitting close and comfortable with a girl later on, you can (and should!) drop the volume, but a loud delivery on the initial approach is essential to arrest a girl’s attention.
5. Open sets over your shoulder.
You need to convey sufficient disinterest when approaching a girl (the approach itself is sufficient indication of interest) to divest her of the fear that she’s going to have trouble getting rid of you. This will allow her to take a chance on investing in the interaction. When initially talking to a girl, your head should be facing towards her but your body away. There are two common scenarios: in the first, you are with your friends and casually open a girl in an adjacent group; in the second, you are walking in the venue and open her on your way back to your friends.
6. Lean back
Get her to come towards you, beckon her with your hand or finger if necessary. Many novices lean into a girl when they first speak to her, which telegraphs excessive interest at too early a stage of the interaction. Also, try to stay as still as possible by minimizing unnecessary or nervous fidgeting; every movement of your body should be expressive and to the point.
When you have mastered some or all of these elements, the whole process of a pick-up will become immeasurably more straightforward since you will be conveying so much value non-verbally. Try to work on all of these, and have friends observe and point out what you’re doing wrong.
By: Richard La Ruina
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How to pick up girls
July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment
One of the biggest challenges we face as guys is knowing how to pick up girls. Most guys think that the best place to pick up women is in bars and clubs, but most of the time, this is far from the truth. But there is hope, and there are ways to pick up any girl if you have the persistence and knowledge to do so. With careful thought and planning, you’ll see its actually really easy to pick up women, you just need to find different ways of approaching them.
Making eye contact is very important when trying to pick up girls. Subtle eye contact is usually the best way to go, by which I mean don’t stare because you’ll likely scare off many girls that way. When a girl looks at you for more than a couple seconds she is basically inviting you over, in a very discreet way. You now have just a short window of opportunity, maybe just a few minutes, to get over their and start talking to her. Another way you can tell if a girl is interested is when she plays with her hair or looks back a second time after first eye contact.
Usually the first few words you say to her are the toughest, because often the first few lines can be the make or break line for most guys. You need to say something smart, funny, clever, and above all something that will make you stand out from the rest of the pack. You should not use any bad pick up lines because they will get you nowhere. Develop a keen sort of personality that says to a woman you are a genuine guy with a cool sense of humor and you can actually have a mind of your own. So what should I say, you ask yourself. It all depends on the situation, but anything that can keep a conversation interesting is going to keep her coming back for more. Asking a lot of questions, but avoiding the obvious such as “do you come here often?” or the pushy like “are you here with anyone”, can usually be a good start. You should also have a ton of interesting stories to tell, to keep the conversation from going south.
After you have established talking with here, now comes the time where you need to lock a date or another meeting with her. A lot of this depends on whether or not you made an impression the first time around, which is all about presentation. Did you present yourself in a good manner, or is she wondering “When is this guy gonna just leave?” The best way to seal the deal is to keep her wanting more. The steps I outlined above should all be kept to a very short time frame, to keep here interested in you and wanting a date in the first place. The better off you present yourself, the better your chances are, plain and simple.
If you really want to know how to pick up girls, you need to check out my guide. Its packed with a ton of information on picking up girls that will liven your life.
By: Rob Vrabel
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Rob Vrabel is an expert author and dating and relationship specialist.
