Five Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend
Do you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you? There are some signs of a cheating girlfriend you can keep a lookout for. Even if signs are there, it doesn’t mean cheating is actually happening. Nonetheless, here are some things to look out for if you suspect your girlfriend is unfaithful. If you catch it early enough, you may be able to address it and take care of it early, so that it doesn’t permanently damage or ruin your relationship. Here are some signs of a cheating girlfriend:
· Previously, your girlfriend talked to you about everything. Now, she barely says two words to you and hasn’t for a while.
Has it been a while since your girlfriend and you have sat down for a heart to heart or simply spent the evening watching TV together and having easy conversation throughout? If schedules have suddenly changed so that a new job or other commitment is taking this time away from each of you, that’s one thing. However, if this hasn’t happened and it used to be that you talked about everything together and now she never says two words to you, beware. She could be getting her needs met elsewhere.
· She dresses attractively — but not for you.
If your girlfriend slums around the house in old sweats and a T-shirt when you two are together but she’s always dressed to the nines whenever she goes out, this could be something to worry about.
· She has lots of conversations on the phone that she ends abruptly whenever you enter the room — or she is on the computer a lot and quickly closes it down a lot of the time if there’s a chance you can see the screen.
It could be that she’s simply planning a surprise party for you or that there’s some other innocent business going on, true, but if this has been going on for a while, it may very well be that she’s thinking about having an affair, or actually having one.
· She spends an awful lot of time away from home or “working” after work hours.
If the two of you always used to spend weekends or a lot of your free time together and that suddenly isn’t happening anymore, take note. It could be that she’s simply spending some time with friends, true, but it could also be that she’s thinking about or actually cheating on you.
· Little intimacies have disappeared from the relationship.
Even if the two of you still make love on a regular basis, look for other clues that your relationship might be deteriorating if you suspect something is wrong. Happy couples usually have little signs of affection they display unconsciously toward each other during the course of the day. For instance, a peck on the cheek, use of endearments such as “honey” peppered throughout the conversation, or affectionate pats, holding hands, and other little signs of affection may be missing. If this is true, be careful. It doesn’t necessarily mean an affair is happening, but it could mean that you need to work on your relationship to bring those little touches back so that one doesn’t start.
If you see these signs of a cheating girlfriend, the best thing to do is to find out if it’s actually happening and why, as soon as possible. If you want to salvage the relationship, the next step may be couples counseling. In addition, if she’s cheating on you because you’ve taken the relationship for granted, you’ve cheated on her yourself, or some other behavior directly related to you, realize that you’re responsible for the cheating, too. And of course, if you’re a good and faithful guy who hasn’t done any of these things, the responsibility falls on her. Nonetheless, you still need help as a couple if you want to salvage the relationship. That doesn’t mean it can be salvaged, but you can certainly try if your girlfriend is interested.
That said, if she has cheated on you simply because she thinks she can and that you’ll put up with it, it’s really time to move on. No one deserves to have a partner who cheats on him or her. You deserve better, and the best way to tell her so is by giving her the boot.
Daniel Hartman
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7 Responses to “Five Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend”
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Shes avoiding sex and not giving proper reasons
She has maybe been igoring you or doing the opposite by giving you loads of attention (out of guilt)
She hides her mobile phone
She starts picking faults with you and seems unhappy a lot
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If you have to question if she’s cheating on you, then she might be cheating.
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If she doesn’t want sex. (she might not be felling good about herself though)
If she never wants to see you. (though she could be busy)
If she has text messages she can’t show you (although that could be family or friends problems)
If she has a go at you all the time.
And if she just generally seems very dissinterested i suppose.
All of these things are explainable, but it might be how a girl would act in the situation.
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I don’t know the top 5 signs…
Clues tho some are:
Test messages and she says its nothing or the phone company or a friend…
She makes phone calls when you not around and then hangs up if you walk in…
She says she is somewhere but is really some where else…
Take it from me though…if she is going to cheat there is nothing you can do to stop her or keep her. Cause if thats what she really wants to do then she is going to do it. I would just come right out and ask her. Honesty is the best thing in the world…she will either think your insecure and cute or get really offensive and then it will make you wonder…
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alright well…….1st of all i would talk to your gf bout cheating and have her promise u she wont do it, but i would also trust her. Anyways if you ask her to come over or something and she rejects you and tells you a stupid reason, that might mean she is with some1 else or she just doesn’t wanna hang out, but then i would get 1 of your friends or 1 her friends to text, call, or something else and have them ask her what she is doing today and see if it is the same answer that she told you. I really don’t know any others. But also maybe if she is acting weird around you and when you lean in for a kiss and she doesn’t want to or you wanna have a "speical night" with her and you guys r getting into it and she stops you and puts her cloths back on and says i cant do this. Im sorry if i was no help, but i tryed……..good luck, i hope everything works out.
Alexis
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1. she acts really distant, shes not as "lovey dovey" as she used to be.
2. she walks away when she talks on the phone, and doesnt let you mess around on her phone, deletes text messages
3. she changes her physical apperance a lot. doesnt do the things she used to do, for example, she doesnt wear her hair the way that you compliment her on a lot. (if that makes sense)
4. she tells you she cant go to dinner with you, or hang out, because she has "previous engagements" but doesnt tell you with who or where.
5. mutual friends are acting wierd
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hope this helps
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