Why didn’t my ex girlfriend want to continue on for coffee with me?
August 2, 2010 | 2 Comments
One February night, I decided to break up with my girlfriend (I gave her all kinds of clues that I was going to dump her but she ignored them).
So I invite her on a -20 walk to the coffee shop. And as she’s talking and laughing, I stop her in her tracks, go infront of her and tell her that I want to break up.
Then I tell her, that I want to continue on to the coffee shop.
But she refused. She didnt’ want to continue on for coffee with me.
Why didn’t she want to continue on to have a coffee for me? I mean, I was going to buy it for her this time?
I know this might be hard for your ego to hear, but you’re a jerk! If you dump a girl and then just expect them to get on with their life just then and there, wow, you’re really shallow. You may not take it hard, but girls take it hard being dumped, and it sounded like she really liked you, and that’s why she didn’t take your little "hints". So no offense, but get over yourself, and put yourself in her shoes for once. If a girl you really liked dumped you, would you be well enough to go to coffee with her still? Just think, and don’t be so insensitive to a girls feelings…
How can I pick up a Girl at the beach?
July 28, 2010 | 3 Comments
Im on vacation with my friend and his family. We are in a huge condo and the beach is jammed packed with women. Talking to a girl is easy but I have no idea how to approach them while they are doing something like reading or in the water with their friends or tanning withought looking like some creeper.Can you peeps give us some advice thanks. My friend and I are both 17 Just in case you were wondering.
The best way yet to approach a girl is just to be natural and approach normally. Go over to her and say: "Hi, I’m _______ and i want to meet you because you look like an interesting person."
It doesn’t matter where you are at the moment because this kind of approach works everywhere.
Approaching like this will make her instantly attracted to you because you had the courage to walk over to her with nothing but a simple conversation, which also makes you look confident about yourself. It shows her that you don’t need some cheap pick up lines or something ‘catchy’ in order to talk to her.
It also shows her that you are decisive and that you know what you want and also that you try to get what you want. In this case, getting to know her.
Anyway I know that approaching like this is kinda hard if you haven’t done that before. But trust me it works every time.
If you approach like this the girl will have no reason to reject you because all you ask from her is to meet her. You didn’t asked her out yet, or you didn’t asked her to have sex with you. It’s just a simple name exchanging and socializing.
After that simple sentence you can continue the conversation. The important thing is the opening. The ice-breaker. Later on just go with the flow. Ask her stuff that you really want to know about her but don’t ask too many questions so that she doesn’t feel like she is being interrogated. Once in awhile make a statement or express your opinion on the subject.
You can hang out in the local coffee shop or in the city park. Doesn’t matter much where you will hang out but it should be somewhere where you will feel comfortable.
I hope my answer helped and if you want to know more about how to approach, how to act and how to seduce women visit the source page below.
The Art of Metacommunicating
April 10, 2010 | Leave a Comment
George Costanza, during a conversation in Monks coffee shop in the Seinfeld episode The Opposite, tells Jerry of his curious ability to pick up on when people are feeling uncomfortable at parties.
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Planning a Perfect Date
March 4, 2010 | 8 Comments
Although certain customs claim the male is supposed to plan a date, we all know that isn’t necessarily so. Dates can be planned by either gender and there are little or no taboos about who pays and who drives anymore. Things are becoming more equal and for good reason. Safety and independence are two of the major considerations, but enough of that. Let’s talk about planning that perfect date.
Where
Sometimes a date location lends itself to you easily. There is great concert you’re dying to make it to or something different like a festival or rodeo is in town. Other times, you’re stuck in a planning rut. What do to, where to go? Be creative. The coffee shop has been done. Yes, a lot of folks like coffee. Yes, it’s nice to talk there. But there are lots of other places to visit and get to know each other that are neutral ground if that’s what you’re looking for.
Try the zoo. Or perhaps a long (or short) walk through a park or along a beach might give you time to chat. Pack a picnic basket and find a pretty spot to sit and visit over cheese and wine. You also don’t have to wow anyone with your sophistication. Remember how much you loved carnivals? You probably still do. Your date might also get a kick out of them and a carnival or amusement park will have plenty of time for visiting while you stand in line. Check the paper for something fun and different. Impress your date with your creativity (even if he or she isn’t impressed by anything else.)
Who
It’s entirely possible you’re gotten this far in the date planning without ever settling on whom to take. Perhaps you have a steady significant other or even a spouse. Obviously they are probably your best candidate, or at least your safest choice.
There is no reason you can’t be creative about who to take on a date. Be bold and ask the cute guy at work, or try the girl in the apartment next door. Just because you haven’t been brave enough to ask before doesn’t mean you shouldn’t work up the courage now. Even if you flop, you can always take a buddy with you instead.
What
And the eternal question after everything else has been planned ad nausea. What do I wear? That, of course, depends on where you’re going and your own personal style. But if you’re stewing over the problem at work or at home, but the thought of weeding through your closet is too much for you, try checking out some online fashions in the form of dress up games on The Doll Palace. You can see stylish outfits pulled together by professionals or even make up your own outfits on various dress up doll makers.
Pretty soon you’ll have the perfect outfit, perfect somebody, and perfect location. Here’s hoping it all leads up to a perfect date. Good Luck!
Ajay R (articlesubmit.net)
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Sweet Talk Pick Up Lines That Will Put a Smile on Her Face
July 18, 2009 | Leave a Comment
If you are looking to attract a conservative girl, then using sweet talk pick up lines may be a good strategy to apply. Sometimes you need to change your game around to fit your environment. Conservative girls require a different type of approach then party or liberal girls. These sweet talk pick up lines are good to use at the library, the church, perhaps a coffee shop. The kind of places you would expect to meet conservative girls.
Before you approach a girl with one of these sweet pick up lines you should have a good idea of what kind of person she is. Again, these are most likely conservative girls that perhaps go to church and have strong family values. I think that is a great thing and these are usually great girls to go after, especially if you are looking for a relationship. Also some of them are extremely beautiful. Sometimes you can easily tell what type of girl they are, by the place they frequent and activities they engage in. For example, studying in the library on a Saturday night, as opposed to getting wasted in a bar.
If she fits the above criteria; here are some great sweet talk pick up lines you can use:
· Don’t leave yet! We haven’t had a chance to talk!
· Would you go to church with me on Sunday?
· I don’t run around, get drunk, or use drugs. Also, I have a good job and a nice home. People say I’m boring; maybe that’s why I’m alone.
· You remind me of someone I knew in high school.
· Did I tell you that my great-uncle was a personal friend of Billy Graham?
· What do you think the apostle Paul meant when he said, ‘Greet everyone with a holy kiss’?
· You have the body of Amy Grant and the soul of Mother Teresa.
· Before tonight, I never believed in predestination.
· That’s a nice Bible.
· God must have been in a great mood the day he made you!
If you have the right attitude, your body language and tone says you are confident; and deliver these sweet talk pick up lines with a smile on your face then provided you are in the right environment and are delivering it to the right type of girl, these lines could work really well.
To learn more sweet talk pick up lines along with a whole host of pick up lines for all types of girls then visit my website to receive the free report that many men have used to attract the girls they desire.
By: Mark Taylor
About the Author:
Mark Taylor is an expert on seduction, attraction and dating. He has helped thousands of men attract beautiful women and get over their shyness and transform into confident men. If you would like to be able to seduce ANY women then check out his website at www.masteronlinedater.com
